From:
Ali Bierman
Thursday, 11:24 a.m.
Dear Parent,
For the last
30 years, I've been pulling out
my hair trying to teach people how to implement the
SAME
process that I personally used to raise
two great kids who are “making it” in show
business, the business of rejection.
Everywhere I
turn I see parents fretting
away their lives with worry while wasting thousands of dollars on
books, techniques, and therapies leaving
themselves and their
adolescents frustrated, sad and even depressed because
they're looking for the magic technique to take away the pain rather
than understand what creates and keeps that pain in place. They all
make it so hard!
I checked out
the books and articles
(Parents, You Gotta Ask Questions: Building Offspring Self Esteem and
even Adolescent self esteem case studies) in the library and online
looking for a solution.
What I found
was shocking: they're all saying the same
darn thing:
A bunch of
definitions, a list of symptoms
and systems (checklist self esteem children, tests self esteem
children, programs for self esteem children... the list goes on and on)
that treat those surface behaviors like band-aids cover a wound... they
can tell you what to expect as normal behavior possibly setting up a
self-fulfilling prophecy... they give you a plan of action that fits
those behaviors... and some of the more experienced-based ones tell you
what actually works for many teens.
... But think
about it! Do programmed
reactions to specific behaviors sound like a way to change
your child’s self-view permanently? Of course not!
That stuff is just the first
aid EVERY parent needs
for emergencies. Yes, everyone has emergencies sometimes.
What you
REALLY need is the ability to...
- Talk
with your adolescent so
they actually listen to you and
respond -- not just
hear words fall out of your mouth.
- Listen
to your teen so
they will want to talk to you!
- Never
be wrongly accused of not
understanding them and shutting
down all means of
communication between you.
- Manage
your life and time -- teach them by your actions.
They do not listen to your
words unless you “walk your talk.” Why should they?
- Use a "proven
life style" as a blueprint for success
- Learn
to replace reactions with responses. Teach your teen to do the same.
- Send
other peoples’
judgments back at them --
automatically. Always be 100%
certain that your messages do NOT contain blame!
- Easily
make sure your teen knows the
difference between being responsible for their lives and feeling at
fault -- for
how things go -- using
language and examples they understand in their world.
- Create
trust -- that
flows from you to them and from them to you.
- Know
when your teen needs your
help -- and is afraid or
embarrassed to ask for it!
- Learn
the difference between
being concerned and interfering -- intuitively -- and never
waste another minute worrying or regretting what you did
or did not do.
... and you
want it to be EASY!
So all this
research got me thinking... If
I'm this frustrated, after raising two kids who
still go through tough times despite having high self esteem, how
frustrated are YOU?
The average
parent doesn't have the time (or
the cash) or the energy to deal with problems like those. And you don't
want the SAME solutions others are using with limited success at best!
You want TWO
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parents are using (and 99% will never know) that
can help almost GUARANTEE the success of
every adolescent in your life!
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"all-in-one" solution that works in any
religion, any ethnic group, and with any gender -- simple
teachings that you do NOT need a Ph.D. in Psychology to use!
... and you
deserve to have those demands
met!
So
I decided that, since I
couldn't find this information anywhere else, I'd write it myself...
AND share it with everyone who tells me about the exact
same
frustrations raising their teens.
It took me 30
years of experience
and 6 long months developing
this e-book, and I spent over
$11,000 to put together this work, sharing how I raised my kids, to go
back and recall what I did, what worked and what didn’t
work--what I did and didn’t do, say and didn’t say.
It was essentially figuring out the formula I used to grow great kids.
I took all
the areas where my own
children faced challenges, plus
ALL my years of experience
working with kids and parents and created a completely new, "first-of-its-kind"
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esteem in adolescents.
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Of course, I
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As
a parent of four children, I can cherish and appreciate the interaction
that transpires when Ali’s children are in her
presence. This powerful and proven recipe in Beingness and
nurturing with love the Beingness in your children can only lead to a
delicious end result of children being what they learned by being loved
unconditionally. This is a MUST reading for all parents,
grandparents, teachers, mothers-to-be, etc., etc.,
Mary
G., PHD Life 101, Torrance, CA
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Banish
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important difference when you interact with your teen.
Everyone
knows that your teen will see
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grown accustomed to fooling themselves and playing games with others.
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how to be the kind of person who experiences challenges... and
still moves forward with their life.
* Improving
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How do you
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Watch
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comfortable being WHO THEY ARE, dressing and wearing their hair to
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Self love,
self
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respecting others.
With Parents,
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As your teens
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you will feel that they
have become lighter, less serious. Without understanding anything about
energy you will notice that your home feels like a heavy blanket that
held everyone down has been lifted. It may even feel noticeably easier
to breathe!
You see a
family is like a mobile. When any
unit on the mobile is touched all the units move. When your
teen’s life
changes they become someone different from who they used to be. I mean
they think and act differently so they get different results. Others
react and respond differently to them and relationships are necessarily
altered.
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* Taking
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actions -- and non-action! Never waste
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themselves.
* Asking
you for your opinion and
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* Taking
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but their
self-assurance lets them jump in
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* Standing
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activities, unafraid of
what their peers may think
or say, so you never waste time
telling them they should
succeed and achieve great accomplishments -- ALWAYS.
* Being
responsive to life events -- rather
than reactive!
* Coming from
their strengths -- rather than their fears! (Most teens
act to
avoid pain RATHER THAN to experience pleasure and peace!)
... PLUS,
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* Show
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Imagine this
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was in his early twenties he came to me one day and said,
“Mom, I want to know exactly what you did to raise us because
I like
the way we turned out.”
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and teenager girls self confidence.
You ask how
do you encourage self confidence
in children? What do you do for improving self confidence for young
women? Are there printable worksheets on self esteem? As a parent you
are sick and tired of seeing your teen in pain. You just want to know
how to help people with self esteem. You are looking for activities to
build self esteem and acceptance for kids and wondering if social
support and self esteem and adolescent would work in a group. How many
times have you thought about counseling self esteem and adolescents?
Oh, if only there was a self esteem inventory for adolescents. Well
there is one. In Parents,
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How To Build adolescent Self Esteem your teen will take an inventory of
how they look at life now. Until your teen knows where he is, what he
thinks about and how he sees life and therefore lives life, how can he
know where he wants to be and what he wants to do to live his dreams?
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* Assist
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overwhelm when we break tasks down into steps. Small steps still get
you there.
* Hold
your teen accountable to
completing what they say they will each day... until they can do that
task for themselves -- responsibly.
* Smile
LOTS as you watch your
teen’s face light up with each personal accomplishment,
passing every barrier... There
is NO feat too small to
celebrate. As my, mentor, Blair Singer says, “Celebrate all
wins!”
* Share
your teen’s
pride as they take on a lifestyle of, as Nike says, “Just do
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you think about taking action, NOT when you plan to take action but
when you put one foot in front of the other, so to speak, and move!
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With most
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read a lot of theory that explains the techniques they want you to do.
This book is about living life, about experiencing a change in mindset
that inevitably leads to a shift in self-esteem. You will see it happen
before your eyes! And I caution you to be on the lookout
for
changes in your family dynamics... the surprise is you may
well see this work also facilitates
your growth.
But this is
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need to communicate in a way
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and understood as you intended...
* You
need to love, honor, and
respect yourselves and each other implicitly...
* You
need to trust each other
completely...
* You
need to take responsibility
rather than blame or accuse each other...
... and much
more!
I've been
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on the soccer fields, and in crisis care.
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